A Mom’s Story
Amblyopia, if left untreated, can lead to monocular blindness.
That’s what I was told when I took my two year-old son
Joshua to the eye doctor. I was really frightened, as I didn’t
know anything about Amblyopia. The doctor told me that Joshua
needed to be “patched” over his right eye for three
hours each day so that his left eye would grow stronger. When
I asked the doctor how I was supposed to get Joshua to not only
put on the eye patch, but to also wear it for up to three hours
each day, he replied “I don’t know.” That’s
when I realized there were no good resources for parents dealing
with children suffering from this condition.
Later that day at home, I tried to get Joshua to put on his
eye patch. After struggling with him to wear the patch, he pulled
it off after approximately 30 SECONDS! After fighting with him
for over one hour, we were both very frustrated and I didn’t
know what else to do. I eventually gave up, put the eye patch
in the kitchen drawer and started to cry thinking that my son
was going to go blind in his left eye and that I was helpless
to do anything about it.
Later that day while Joshua was watching T.V., he saw a cartoon
with a pirate wearing an eye patch. All of a sudden, my son,
who originally wanted nothing to do with his eye patch, came
running into the kitchen, took it out of the drawer and attempted
to wear it just like the cartoon pirate dancing on television.
I stood there speechless. After all the fighting and arguing,
he put on the patch after watching a silly cartoon.
I then realized I could make a video just for
Joshua with puppets wearing eye patches in order to encourage
him to wear his. This lead me to perform further research on
Amblyopia and I realized there were many other frustrated parents
with limited resources to help them. That’s how my video
for “The Eye Patch
Kids” came about.
With the help of my wonderful husband, Allen
(who was also just as scared as I was about Joshua’s eye
problems), my sister Tracy who helped me write the script and
perform various roles and my close friend Andrea who is the star
of the video playing Princess and the Eye Patch, the “Eye
Patch Kids ” came
to life. They put in countless hours of rehearsal for their parts
and I am forever grateful to them. Thank you.
Even after seeing the rough cut of the video, my son has been
so good with his patching because he now associates wearing the
patch to having fun with the puppets. I am so happy. He no longer
feels different and in many ways thinks he’s special because
of his new puppet friends. He now begins his morning ritual by
picking out which eye patch he wants to wear and placing it on
with the video. We no longer fight about him wearing his patch
and we are both so much happier as a result. |